Archive for June, 2012

Dear women of the dating world

June 11, 2012

In my time dating and just meeting women, I have found that the best and easiest way to meet someone is by being yourself. This may sound easier than it is and perhaps sound cliche but it is true. I’ve found that many women, and men, try and become what they think their date wants them to be. At first this may be nice or even flattering, for the person you’re dating, but it gets old quick. Sure it’s nice to do things that your date likes but don’t fake being happy out doing it all the time and feel free to invite him into activities you like. A relationship is a two way street and must be treated as such, if not, it’s not the right one. Now women, a man Iike’s a woman who likes to have fun but not one who can’t handle herself in public. A drink or 3 are fine but know your limit. If you’re being too loud or obnoxious, then perhaps you’ve had one too many. Although men like outgoing and classy, in public, they do enjoy a wild, crazy girl at home. Not all the time, of course, but it definitely keeps things interesting. Now, if you’re truly looking for love, you cannot be closed minded. Yes, looks get you interested, but may fade away quick with bad conversation or a bad personality. Get to know a man, hell even go on a blind date, but keep your heart open to new people. Being shallow will only take you so far and you may pass up “the one” by being this way. Having things in common is great and helps break the ice but also have things that are different so that you may try them together and build a deeper connection. Yes, we all have a type, but it is sometimes the one totally opposite, that is the most right for you. Love doesn’t come in a certain color, shape, size, or any other tangible characteristic, often times love is felt instantly after meeting someone. Society says that we should wait certain dates before saying you like each other and such but, sometimes, it’s just right. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and remember, if it doesn’t work out, the right person is still out there waiting for you. Don’t rush and when the timing is right, you’ll find each other.