There are things that you cannot learn from books, or websites or even people. Those things you learn from life. There’s lessons that must be learned and others that get thrown at you. Take them and learn from them.take the wisdom they provide and use it to become a better person. Use what you gain to help others on their quest to a better life and in return you yourself will gain growth. Cry if you must, scream when you need to release, and laugh if the urge reaches you. You needent hide from emotions, they make us human and remind us we are alive. Take care of yourself first and then seek out someone to share your experiences with. Stay positive and keep your eyes forward, life will happen, join it and live it.