What is love.

Many may say that love is a chemical reaction that our body has when we meet a potential mate, other say it’s when yournheart sinks and you just wanna be with that person. I believe that there’s several types of love and that it is what it is. When you feel it you just know that it’s love and nothing else. There’s the love for a friend, a person you know is there for you no matter what and somewhat that will listen when other won’t. They’re someone you know you will help if you can, and that you will cherish always. Don’t confuse this with a spouse because as much as you love this friend, you know you could never see yourself having a hues and a family with them. Although they are in some way a part of your family it’s different. There’s that unconditional love that a parent has for his offspring. I myself have unconditional love for my daughter and my mother and sister. It’s just human nature to be attached to those that you’ve know you’re whole life. I truly know that no matter how mad or how bad things got with my family, I’d do absolutely anything in my power to help them out or to make them happy. I know that I would in a millisecond give my life up for that of my daughters, and I always try to think about her living the best she can and doing my best to make sure she has a better life. Unconditional love can appear in other people but it’s mostly visible in relationships between parents and children and siblings. Then there’s that ” true love” that many aspire to find. True love to me is rare and hard to find, but when you do find it you do everything in your power to keep it and to make sure it doesn’t dissappear. True love however is a two way street. You may find someone you feel is ” the one” but if it’s not the same for them, then you must move forward. True love is just something you both know and feel. I wouldn’t say you can describe it but it when you go about your day and a thought of your spouse comes to mind and it brings a smile to your face. It’s when you miss them despite knowing that you’re going to see them soon. Its knowing that if everything in your life disappeared and Ll your belongings were gone, that them being with you would be enough to keep you happy. They are truly your other half and make you complete. You become satisfied with life and despite perhaps not having the best job, house, car, or whatever you are extremely happy. It’s hearing a song and thinking of them, it’s watching your kids grow up And knowing you two created them. Perhaps you may feel you had found this but things didn’t work out and now you don’t believe in true love, but if you look back you notice that you knew it wasn’t going to last. If your argue and never solve it just move on then its not going to work out. If one of you only takes and doesn’t compromise then its not Going to work. True love does take work and maybe you hVe to give in at times and realize that it’s better to lose a stupid fight and be with them than being proud and losing them. Love is out there and everyone can feel it but it has to just come to you. Many try to find it but ” the one ” will come to you when the time is right and usually when you least expect it. Just be patient and know that you will someday have it, just keep yourself open to the idea and don’t force it. Anyways I believe love reaches everyone but the world is depressing and many lose sight of what love is. Many are too caught up in greed and the physical items in life that they forget about the abundance of emotions and how they can be better than a fancy car or tv. Yes we live in a place where horrible things happen and people die and are killed, but it’s not worth living in fear and worrying about things you can’t control. Be happy and positive and know thatmyou will make it thruough the day. Tell the people in your life that you love them because it makes a difference, and don’t be afraid to let people love you. Peace

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